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Now that You are Diagnosed with DID, Learn How to Calm Your System, Settle the Internal Chaos, Connect with New Parts -- Bring more Peace and Healing into Your Life

Saddest Little Bear

A Beautiful, Heartfelt Story for Dissociative Systems, Featuring the First Little Bear Found on Hiddenton Point, Combined with Dissoci-ACTION Questions and Activities Designed to Teach You How to Work with Your New DID System Parts

  • Now that you know you are DID, do you know what to do?
  • Are you new to working with your DID system ?
  • Do you have any sad little ones in your system ?
  • Do you have any lost ones in your system ?
  • Do you know how to reach your insiders ?
  • Or how to find your insiders ?
  • Do you know what to do with those little ones once you find them or feel their presence ?

When you are first diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), you may feel overwhelmed and utterly confused and at a loss about how to manage a system of inside people.

These first weeks and months of recognizing your internal system can feel chaotic, frightening, embarrassing, noisy, and frankly, far too huge of a problem to address, let alone solve.  It can feel like a great big headache!

Even after some months, or even years of a dissociative diagnosis, many DID survivors are still at a loss about how to manage their system, especially when there has been a lack of helpful guidance. You may still feel just as confused and overwhelmed, maybe even more so!

Sometimes one intense part newly emerging into awareness can send everything and everyone into disarray. This can happen years after you’ve known you were DID. Do you know how to manage that? Do you have the system cohesion to handle this new part?

This system chaos, confusion, and overwhelm often requires far more therapy hours than what is available, IF you can find a qualified, knowledgeable DID specialist in the first place.

You can be left not knowing what to do for your system, and not knowing how to help your insiders, even if you are willing to help. You could be feeling the intensity of your internal system problems, but not have the tools or the skills to help your system.

Your therapist, even with the best of intentions, may not know how to help either.

This is not your fault, and talk about frustrating!

It’s so discouraging when you know you need something  but you just can’t find what you need!

You may have been trying anything you could, out of dedication for your healing, and out of desperation for relieving your pain.  Have you found many helpful resources?  Are you tired of spending your time, energy, and resources on therapeutic resources that just aren’t helping?

  • What do you do?
  • Who can help?
  • Who understands DID?
  • Who understands DID systems?
  • Who understands DID kids?

DID systems and DID kids have so very few resources created specifically for them — resources that share ideas and helpful suggestions tailored specifically for those people living a plural life.  Your DID systems has its own unique set of struggles, and your DID system need unique resources, just for you and your system!   Dissociative folks need and deserve helpful resources that teach how to work together successfully as a DID system.

The Saddest Little Bear is exactly that — the first story in a series of stories, written specifically for DID system people, by a DID system of people, teaching how to address DID system problems.

I’m Happy to Introduce
The Bears of Hiddenton Point.

The Bears of Hidden Point are Here

Kathy from Discussing Dissociation — using a teamwork approach with Distance Ness — has combined an original story written by a DID system for DID systems with additional therapeutic materials.

Wanna learn how to work with your DID system?

Think about the ways you’ve met the little ones in your system.  Think about some of the struggles you may have had in that process.  Now, with all that in mind, let’s meet the saddest little bear and get some helpful DID healing tips.

Have any of your insiders felt sad, scared, lost, isolated or alone?

 

Did you know how to help them? The saddest little bear was lost, sad and scared too.

Do you know what to do when you find an inside part who is new to you?

You can learn! The saddest little bear was new and yet someone was able to help him.

Have you felt frustrated, or confused, or unsure how to help your sad little bears?

Would you like some helpful tips? Maybe what worked for the saddest little bear will also work for you.

Could your insiders learn about DID system work from this story written for DID kids?

I certainly hope so!

Yes, There Is Hope!

Hope for You and Your DID System

The Hiddenton Bears have a lot to say about being a system of bears, and they are happy to share their thoughts with you.  You can learn about DID System Work in an educational, interesting, fun, and creative way.  The Saddest Little Bear Dissoci-ACTION Story Pack provides relevant  DID System guidance for all DID systems who want specialized help developing greater system cohesion, system cooperation, system communication, and internal peace.


Saddest Little Bear
Dissoci-ACTION Story Pack

Saddest Little Bear

An original story written by Distance Ness.

Original artwork by Kathy from Discussing Dissociation.

Welcome Video by Kathy from Discussing Dissociation with the saddest little bear.


Saddest Little Bear — Dissoci-ACTION Questions

DID System Work — written information by Kathy from Discussing Dissociation

After reading the Saddest Little Bear story, read through an elaborate discussion, helpful guidelines and Dissoci-ACTION Questions provided by Kathy, including questions for self-learning and application of teaching materials, all based on the Saddest Little Bear story.

The dozens of Dissoci-ACTION Application Questions for DID system work are written in ways to help you and your system apply what you’ve read in the story.  You and your insiders are absolutely encouraged to put into practice what the Saddest Little Bear teaches.

Video 1 — DID System Work found in Saddest Little Bear

DID System Work — video information by Kathy from Discussing Dissociation

Video featuring Kathy from Discussing Dissociation, providing therapeutic information and valuable DID System applications based on the Saddest Little Bear story.  15:55 minutes

This video is an example of Kathy teaching healing principles to DID survivors.  Anyone who has had individual sessions with Kathy would have heard some of these concepts and ideas.

Have you ever wanted a 16 minute individual session with Kathy? Have a listen to this video and you can know what it’s like to spend a little time with Kathy. 🙂

Written discussion and Dissoci-ACTION questions provided.

A written version of the video is also provided.

Video 2 — DID System Activity connected to the Saddest Little Bear

DID System Work / DID System Activity — video information by Kathy from Discussing Dissociation

Video featuring Kathy from Discussing Dissociation, providing therapeutic information about DID System Work and a DID System Activity based on the Saddest Little Bear story.  20:25 minutes

In this video, Kathy walks through the steps of a DID System Activity mentioned in the Saddest Little Bear story, and of course, encourages all your little bears to join in as well.

Written discussion and a detailed Dissoci-ACTION activity provided.

A written version of the video is also provided.

Video 3 — Additional Complications When Meeting New Parts

Additional Complications in DID System Work — video information by Kathy from Discussing Dissociation

Video featuring Kathy from Discussing Dissociation, providing therapeutic information about DID System Work regarding complications, signs and indicators of new parts surfacing in a DID System.  22:26 minutes

In this video, Kathy discusses 8 different signs, indicators, and complications experienced by dissociative systems when new parts begin to surface.

Written discussion and Dissoci-ACTION questions provided.

A written version of the video is also provided.


Who is Distance Ness?

The author of Saddest Little Bear and the series of stories about the Bears from Hiddenton Point

As written by Distant Ness:

Distance Ness is an Artist who has lived a Dissociated life for over 50 years.

I have experienced isolation and self doubt, substance abuse, dysfunction, misdiagnosis and worn all the labels and judgments which go along with that.

Over the years and with a very Special Person in my life, I can now see and accept who we are and treasure their stories. I admire the strength they share with me when I have none.

We dedicate these short stories to all of you who have a lot, and to my dearest Love forever.

DN.


What Benefits Will You Receive?

  • learn how to do an important piece of DID system work
  • learn how to work with your new system parts
  • learn how to work with your system parts who are sad or afraid
  • learn how to create more internal peace and quiet
  • learn skills that help you move more quickly through the healing process
  • learn how to have less internal friction and fighting
  • better system work saves time in therapy sessions
  • better system work saves expenses in the therapy process
  • educational entertainment via videos made especially for your DID system
  • feel comforted knowing that others relate to you and understand you

Benefits from the Saddest Little Bear Story Pack.

PLUS: 2 Bonus Videos !!

BONUS Videos

Videos featuring Kathy from Discussing Dissociation, reading the Saddest Little Bear story.

These two bonus applications of the Saddest Little Bear were  especially made for DID kids. From Kathy to you!

  1. Video:  Saddest Little Bear — A Quiet Reading, 10:16 minutes
  2. Video:  Saddest Little Bear — The Teddy Bear Reading, 21:08 minutes.

Kathy teaches how to interact with and relate to different inside child parts by modelling exactly how she would be when interacting with inside kids. Let your kids watch the videos, and picture themselves sitting right there with Kathy, hearing the Saddest Little Bear story.


A Quiet Reading
—  video

Kathy reads the Saddest Little Bear story, word for word, quietly and calmly.  This version could be used as a gentle sleepy-time story for your little ones.


The Teddy Bear Reading
—  video

Kathy reads the Saddest Little Bear story to a group of teddy bears, a monkey, a moose, a zebra… and a few other stuffy critters.  This version is bouncy, loud, boisterous, full of fun, and all kinds of silliness.  It’s most definitely entertaining for your little ones!

The two different approaches used in these two videos show different ways to reach inside kids. Again, Kathy is modelling her ways of interacting with various kids in the system.  Not everyone inside will need the same approach, so having a variety of methods for  reaching your inside people is being taught.


Saddest Little Bear —  Dissoci-ACTION Story Pack

  • Created for DID systems who have new parts arriving
  • Created for DID systems who don’t know how to help their insiders
  • Created for DID systems who have insiders still in pain or fear
  • Created for DID kids who want a story written especially for them, DID kids, not outside kids
  • Created for DID kids who want to spend time with Kathy
  • Created for DID systems who want creative ways to approach their healing work

MADE FOR YOU !!


PS:  This Story Pack is NOT for ……

  • DID systems who refuse to talk to their inside people
  • DID systems who want to continue with abusive teachings and deprivation tactics
  • DID systems who insist on neglecting and ignoring their child parts

Saddest Little Bear —  Dissoci-ACTION Story Pack

Working with your system parts, meeting their needs, and creating a positive life for them are essential pieces of the DID healing journey.  It’s a big, big job with lots of layers of complexity.

Your insiders will need a wide variety of resources to help them heal, and the more gentle, caring, understanding support you can provide for them, the better for everyone.

If you already knew what all to do in order to feel better, you would be doing that already, of course.  I have no doubt that you are sincere in your search for help. And I have no doubt whatsoever about the amount of pain you feel. All too many dissociative trauma survivors are desperately looking for help for those very reasons.

Of course, you can adapt stories and helpful information written for outside kids to application for your inside kids, and I most certainly encourage you to do exactly that.  However, resources created specifically for DID systems might have more meaning, more impact, more relate-ability, and they might feel more specialized and personalized for your system.

The Saddest Little Bear Story Pack has been created for a certain area of  struggle for DID systems.  It is by no means the only resource you’ll need, but it will most definitely help in the areas it was intended.

The Digital Product Guarantee  — There is no risk for you.
You will get your money’s worth and MORE.

Be sure that you are genuinely interested in this Product prior to your purchase.   If you have ANY questions or concerns about this Product, please contact the Discussing Dissociation Client Care team prior to your purchase.

Because Digital Products can be completely consumed, read, reviewed, or copied before being “returned”, all Refunds will be addressed via an Exchange of Service.

No monetary Refunds will be given at this time.

HOWEVER, Discussing Dissociation offers a 30-Day Guarantee and if you are unhappy with your Digital Product, you will have guaranteed Consultation Credit, if necessary, valued at the same or higher than the Digital Product purchased.

Discussing Dissociation GUARANTEES that you will receive accurate and essential information about DID, that you will be given helpful information about meeting dissociative system parts, and that you will receive MORE in value than what you pay.

You have a guaranteed positive result.

If you experience any difficulties with this Product, or have questions about how to navigate this Product, or concerns about the information provided in the Product, you may contact the Client Care Team, and get a prompt and friendly response (Monday - Friday, standard American business hours).

If the Client Care team cannot fully address the situation, Kathy will step in, personally respond to your concerns, and answer your DID System questions on an individual basis via a lengthy Email Consultation.

Keep in mind that Email Consultations are valued from $79 - $179 +, so if Kathy is individually addressing your questions about DID and DID System work, you will be receiving a Consultation Service that equals or exceeds the cost of your Digital Product.

That is an awesome back-up for a Digital Product teaching about DID Systems!

No matter what, you will get valuable information and excellent education about DID Systems and Dissociative Identity Disorder.

Guaranteed.


Saddest Little Bear
Dissoci-ACTION Story Pack

Saddest Little Bear 

An original story written by Distance Ness.

Original artwork by Kathy from Discussing Dissociation.

Welcome Video by Kathy from Discussing Dissociation with the saddest little bear.

Saddest Little Bear — Dissoci-ACTION Questions

DID System Work — an elaborate discussion about DID system work by Kathy from Discussing Dissociation

Video 1 — DID System Work found in Saddest Little Bear

DID System Work — video information by Kathy from Discussing Dissociation, with written transcript, discussion, and Dissoci-ACTION questions.

Video 2 — DID System Activity connected to the Saddest Little Bear

DID System Work — video information by Kathy from Discussing Dissociation, with written transcript, discussion, and a Dissoci-ACTION Activity

Video 3 — Additional Complications When Meeting New Parts

DID System Work — video information by Kathy from Discussing Dissociation, with written transcript, discussion, and Dissoci-ACTION questions

PLUS: 2 Bonuses Videos !!

From Kathy to You!

  1. Video:  Saddest Little Bear — A Quiet Reading
  2. Video:  Saddest Little Bear — The Teddy Bear Reading

 


Or Without This Story Pack ...

Don’t spend another year feeling confused or perplexed about how to talk to your inside parts.

Don’t make silly or hurtful mistakes in connecting with your insiders by doing things that just don’t work.

Don’t stay frustrated or angry or upset with your insiders if they refuse to talk with you.

Don’t waste time or money on resources that don’t understand what DID is or how to do system work.

Don’t get stuck feeling sad or depressed because you don’t know how to connect with your insiders.

Don’t let your insiders carry ongoing pain, anguish, sadness, and trauma.


Excited to Share the Saddest Little Bear Story Pack with You

I am completely convinced that treating your inside DID system parts with kindness, providing genuine safety, meeting their unmet needs, and teaching new and healthy information will make a huge and positive impact on your healing, and on the healing for each and every person in your system. The Saddest Little Bear Dissoci-ACTION Story Pack was created with these goals in mind.

I hope EVERY SINGLE CHILD in your system benefits from this Story Pack

I look forward to hearing how the Saddest Little Bear Story Pack helps your little ones.  And I look forward to hearing how you were able to apply the teachings, and hearing what areas meant the most to you, and hearing what you found the most helpful.

Most of all, I look forward to hearing how many of your DID system members are feeling better because of what you have put into dissoci-ACTION !!

I wish you all the very very best in your healing journey.

Warmly,

Kathy

PS:  Remember …..  for same price as one evening out with a nice dinner and a movie, you could purchase this Resource that yours for keeps, and teaches you how to help some of your most sad, and most lost inside people.

Oh, and double PS:

The Saddest Little Bear is the very first Hiddenton Bear Dissoci-ACTION Story Pack.   Don’t forget — there are lots of bears, so know that there are more Story Packs yet to come!